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I am a 40 year old black male,no children,no wife or girlfriend, or no secret side lives,been only in 5 relationships in all my 40yrs,am used to the stability of a longterm relationship,not into mind games or games of the heart,wouldnt wish that kind of pain even on my worst enemy,only games that would be played is the fun kinds that involve you,as my potential mate,I am non-abusive in any form,verbal,mental,or physical ect ect,ide rather cuddle with my lady rather than watch tv,i enjoy the company of a woman,for a man im speaking from my life experiances for this man a woman is the missing element in a mans world although a lot of men don't realize it,a woman to me is more preciouse than silver and gold,all the riches of the earth,thats just me,other men are not content internally seeking to fill some internal void in their chests so they keep on trying to attain being filled,when everything they need in life is right there in a woman,so for me a woman is worth more than all the riches of the earth and I desire finding one of my very own to love till the end of time,i am very articulate,i love to cuddle I am going to repeat myself on that issue,I love to cuddle :) also I am a excellent kisser indeed,again I have no children,at all,and its not a prob if you do,lol I can talk for days lol,i love good conversation and intimate momments,i am very romantic,i like the hand holding,the walks together hand in hand,cuddling during a rainy day just you and I listening to the rain,or me cooking you a delicious meal,cause I can cook :) ,also to put your minds at ease cause there are scammers players and internet predators I will mention for you ladies ease, I am not a scammer,i am not a inter net predator who targets females for money,i do not need a place to stay,i am not wanted by the law,i am not a sick o,psycho or any of those detestable things,i am on this site seeking love only,a long term love,i don't want to overwhelm this profile cause I can talk :P all I want is one woman to love just for me. P.s the photo I am posting is recent and I hope u get past the no smile,i am not mean,its just me being single I haven't had much to smile about.can u make me smile? anyway again all I want is one woman to love just for me.

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Height5' 9" (175 cm)
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureSmile
Health ConditionNo problems
My AttractivenessAttractive


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

SpecialtyEntertainment / Media
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitleEngineer

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, I don't like TV
Favorite TV showsNews,Or something educational I do like the history channel,and if we were having a night in,we could watch something together,i am open to different things I am not closed minded.
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Horror
Favorite moviesToo many to mention
Music typesCountry, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, I'm a recording artist, Industrial, New age, Ambient, Dance, Reggae, Folk, Punk
Favorite artistsLots, however I do not like rap music,at all, some of my favs are artist like Lynyrd skynyrd ,Foreiner,sound garden,i like a lot of 80s rock,alternative, Im a doors fan,love the stones who doesn't?lol anyway the list goes on and on
Reading selectionAncient, Business, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Horror, Music, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Poetry, Religious, Science, Science fiction, Technical
Favorite booksLots
Idea of funSpending time with my woman all curled up with each other cuddling and shaing intimate momments,me holding you close to me,so close u can feel my heart beat,sharing sweet and tender kisses,conversation ,companionship,going out,doing things together,building our relationship is my idea of fun Mainly.
HobbiesReading, Learning, Music, Dancing, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Cooking


SmokerSmoke socially
DrinkingDon't drink
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asCool
In High School I was a(n)Brain
Sense of humorFriendly
My great timeStaying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book
Always wanted to tryHaving one woman to love just for me is it you????


Political viewsVery conservative
Attend religious servicesNever
Goal in lifeTo find me a woman I can call my very own ,one woman to love just for me.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI am looking for a woman who is decisive,a woman who knows what she wants,a woman who is not confused about why she is here on this site,i know I am here seeking a woman I can love just for me,so ide like the woman to know what she wants with her knowing why she is here as well,ide like a woman who is not afraid to be loved,i know some ladies have emotional scars,however ide like a woman who is not afraid to be loved,a woman not afraid to let love inalso the woman must be affectionate,she must love to cuddle,she definitely must love to kiss,hand holding and other affections are welcomed,pls do not be a corpse pls have a pulse,for I have a pulse,i am full of life and love
On the first datespend time getting to know you,perhapse over coffee or tea,a date of some sort sharing conversations and ideas,dinner,this question should be properly addressed after our initial communication,i hope u choose me